Received: from VMS.DC.LSOFT.COM (vms.dc.lsoft.com [205.186.43.2]) by locke.ccil.org (8.6.9/8.6.10) with ESMTP id OAA15133 for ; Sat, 25 Nov 1995 14:24:19 -0500 Message-Id: <199511251924.OAA15133@locke.ccil.org> Received: from PEACH.EASE.LSOFT.COM (205.186.43.4) by VMS.DC.LSOFT.COM (LSMTP for OpenVMS v1.0a) with SMTP id 1E09F34F ; Sat, 25 Nov 1995 15:14:03 -0400 Date: Sat, 25 Nov 1995 13:11:43 -0600 Reply-To: "Steven M. Belknap" Sender: Lojban list From: "Steven M. Belknap" Subject: fuzzy births, deaths & marriage To: John Cowan Status: OR X-From-Space-Date: Sat Nov 25 14:24:23 1995 X-From-Space-Address: LOJBAN%CUVMB.BITNET@UBVM.CC.BUFFALO.EDU lojbab cusku di'e >Language cannot overcome psychology. If we wanted to make some >objective criteria to distinguish hills from mountains, we could do so >(though I note that Lojban uses the same gismu for both %^). Obviously, >at boundary conditions, definitions break down, as you cited with your >shovel. This is an important issue. There is a great book by Samuel Delaney called Babel-17 which suggests that language can overcome psychology. The Sapir-Whorf hypothesis is one reason Loglan was allegedly created; if the hypothesis is true, couldn't it be said that language does overcome psychology? There is a psychiatrist named Aaron Beck, who discovered that depression is invariably accompanied by cognitive distortions. Some of these are: Dichotomous Thinking Overgeneralization Selective Abstractioon Disqualifying the Positive Prejudicial Reasoning Hyperbolic Distortion Emotional Reasoning Obligatory Thinking Labeling Personalization Dr. Beck decided to teach his patients to recognize and rationally respond to their distortions. Surprise! His patients experienced alleviation of their depression. This approach is called cognitive psychotherapy or rational-emotive psychotherapy or other various names. Cognitive psychotherapy works about as well as drug therapy for patients with moderate depression; drugs + cognitive therapy work better than either alone. It is my belief that all of these distortions are due to a greater or lesser extent to a flawed use of language. Many of them are specifically due to Aristotlean-generated false dichotomies. I am curious as to whether language itself is responsible for setting traps which ensnare the vulnerable and lead to depression. A technical note here. Depression is *not* the same as sadness. Sadness is an appropriate response to something tragic. The best definition I have heard for depression came from a suicidal patient who defined depression as "a dishonest sadness." I am certainly not suggesting that linguistics can end all forms of human misery. I am suggesting that the limitations of human natlangs contributes in part to human mental illness. >The most important events in our lives are binary - birth, death, >marriage. There exists some plausible fuzziness even for these >(especially where it concerns medical ethics), but for everyday people >who are the ones who make the language work, fuzziness just makes it >harder to make decisions, even if it would make the decisions more >rational. I think many people would agree with lojbab that birth is binary. Having observed a fair number of births, I would see things another way. The actual birthing might be said to begin when cervical dilation starts, and end when the placenta is delivered. This may last for 12 hours! lo mamta na tugni la lojbab le vlina le jbena I would suggest that birth is not the crucial step of , rather, gastrulation is! There is still a raging controversy about the ethics of abortion. The strident "right-to-lifers" say that termination of pregnancy is absolutely wrong, the "woman's-right-to-choosers" say that termination of pregnancy is a woman's choice, and is not wrong, or at least should not be illegal. Both sides would generally agree that infantacide is clearly "wrong" (but then there is the troubling Chinese situation...). Perhaps fuzzy logic can give a new perspective. Lets assign a value of o.k. to termination of pregnancy immediately before gastrulation, and a value of not-o.k. to abortion of an independent-from-the-mother viable fetus, with all intermediate stages being a fuzzy blend of o.k. & not-o.k. Fuzzy or not, the best course of action would be to prevent unwanted pregnancies. But fuzzy logic suggests another possible course: for those inevitable situations where unwanted pregnancies still occur we could institute measures to perform abortions earlier in fetal development. Note that this option, although it seems to make a certain kind of intuitive sense, is not one being raised by either side. (The point here is not really the issue of abortion, but the new types of thinking which fuzzy logic might encourage, so lets not get tangled up in the irrelevancies of my illustative example, please!) On to death. I have a patient in the hospital who has been dying for 3 months. When will death occur? At the time of cardiac cessation? What if he is an organ donor and the heart beats in someone else's chest for another twenty years? Did death occur when he had his massive stroke 3 months ago, and entered a vegetative state? Will it occur when we decide to remove the respirator and he stops breathing? Sorry, lojbab. I deal with death every day and I don't think it is binary. Finally, marriage. I know a happily-married couple of some 30 years with many children who never obtained a marriage certificate, but are legally married. Did this occur when the common-law marriage statute kicked in 10 years after they began cohabitating? Is it really the signing of a piece of paper or the filing of said piece of paper with a governmental body which indicates a marriage has begun? Or does marriage begin with a meaningful look across a crowded room? "Some enchanted evening, you will meet a stranger..." I don't consider any of lojbab's examples to be binary events, but I respect his cultural and personal reasons for holding these views, and so should lojban. When lojbab asserts that fuzziness makes decisions more difficult, well, sometimes decisions *should* be difficult. But speaking as the guy who has to make some of these life/death decisions, fuzzy logic allows my decision-making to be closer to my intuitive sense of how the universe works. I sleep better at night now that I've "gone fuzzy" and in that sense it makes decisionmaking easier. lojban may prove to be much more than a toy. co'o mi'e. stivn. Steven M. Belknap, M.D. Assistant Professor of Clinical Pharmacology and Medicine University of Illinois College of Medicine at Peoria email: sbelknap@uic.edu Voice: 309/671-3403 Fax: 309/671-8413