Return-Path: Received: (qmail 25558 invoked from network); 15 Sep 2000 14:27:58 -0000 Received: from unknown (10.1.10.27) by m2.onelist.org with QMQP; 15 Sep 2000 14:27:58 -0000 Received: from unknown (HELO imo-r05.mx.aol.com) (152.163.225.5) by mta2 with SMTP; 15 Sep 2000 14:27:58 -0000 Received: from Pycyn@aol.com by imo-r05.mx.aol.com (mail_out_v28.15.) id a.44.7262462 (4234) for ; Fri, 15 Sep 2000 10:27:41 -0400 (EDT) Message-ID: <44.7262462.26f38bdc@aol.com> Date: Fri, 15 Sep 2000 10:27:40 EDT Subject: RE:rape, etc. To: lojban@egroups.com MIME-Version: 1.0 Content-Type: text/plain; charset="US-ASCII" Content-Transfer-Encoding: 7bit X-Mailer: AOL 3.0 16-bit for Windows sub 41 From: pycyn@aol.com X-Yahoo-Message-Num: 4329 Content-Length: 1676 Lines: 25 A Central American joke I have heard from time to time says that the way to talk like a Mexican is to make every other word "chingando" ("fuckin'") -- a trait picked up from the Northern Neighbor in translation. I see that the corresponding rule here is: to get work on a word, have it be one that involves {gletu}. There is more (whatever replaces ink in this medium) spilled on "rape" than any word since "homosexual" (which -- with a number of related words -- we have not yet decided on either, but note that they too were all {gletu}), more even than on names for programs and computer parts. As mark has insisted since the beginning, the crucial thing about rape is consent. Statuatory rape is rape because a juvenile cannot give consent in the legal sense -- ditto mentally challenged people of a certain degree and domestic animals (though other charges may apply). Force is not the issue ("date rape drugs" make that irrelevant) nor is violence, etc. Interestingly, it is not always the consent of the raped that is needed (statuatory again -- if the guardian consents -- provided the guardian is not also the raper -- it is not rape, regardless of the wishes of the minor. There have been some contrary cases lately, happily.) So, assuming that consent is the same as permission (something I, as a profesional philosopher, am loth to do), I think that we are back at {curmi}. However, we do not need a denial of permission, "not permitted" = "forbidden", but only an absence of permission, the lack of a positive act of consent (or, indeed, a positive withdrawal of such consent at a later time). So {curmi claxu gletu}.