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Scientists say the secrets to success in online dating are to aim hig= h, keep your message brief, and be patient. Playing "out of your leagu= e" or dating people considered more attractive than you, is a winning = strategy, according to a new analysis of internet daters in the US. Men had= greater success when they approached women they believed were more desirab= le than themselves. Internet dating has become the dominant form for those = seeking romance - it's the third most popular means of meeting a long term = partner and around half of all 18-34 year olds now use dating apps
They found that both men and women contact potential partners who are,= on average, around 25% more desirable than themselves. Your "desirabi= lity", they found, is not just about the number of messages that you r= eceive, but who you receive them from. If your messages come from people wh= o have themselves received lots of messages, that makes make you more desir= able, according to the study. When women approached men, they received a re= sponse 50% of the time.

When men aimed at women who were rated= as more desirable than themselves, their response rate was 21%. That might= seem low but the authors of the study suggest that online daters were wise= to take the risk. "I think a common complaint when people use online = dating websites is they feel like they never get any replies," said le= ad author Dr Elizabeth Bruch from the University of Michigan. "This ca= n be dispiriting. But even though the response rate is low, our analysis sh= ows that 21% of people who engage in this aspirational behaviour do get rep= lies from a mate who is out of their league, so perseverance pays off."= ;

Generally, most people received a handful of replies at best= , but a few people received many more. One woman in the study was bombarded= with a new message every half hour, from over 1,500 different people in th= e month long study. As the data were wholly anonymised, we can only specula= te about what it was about this woman that struck the attention of so many = men. The secret to success - keep it brief Both men and women tended to wri= te longer messages to a more desirable partner, sometimes up to twice as lo= ng, but the study found that this barely makes any difference to the respon= se rate. We don't really know. One of the reasons might be that people that= are desirable may have so many messages in their inbox, they don't read mo= st of them. That lovingly crafted message that you spent two hours on may g= o unopened," said Dr Bruch in an interview with the BBC.

= Co-author Professor Mark Newman, also from the University of Michigan, said= : "Playing out of your league is one way to reduce the rate at which y= ou get replies. That does not seem to stop people from doing it, and it see= ms to be standard behaviour. There is a trade-off between how far up the la= dder you want to reach and how low a reply rate you are willing to put up w= ith." If you aren't getting any replies, then be patient. Your potenti= al dates might be judging the market before committing to reply at all. Alt= hough the maths is complicated, research has shown that your chance of pick= ing the best date is highest if you reject outright the first 37%. You shou= ld then choose to date the next person that's better than all the previous = ones.

Previous studies have shown that your dating profile sho= uld be roughly 70% about yourself, with the rest about what you're looking = for in a partner. But the problem with this thinking is that it assumes tha= t people are going to read your profile or your message in the first place.= Dr Bruch said: "Women could afford to be more aspirational than they = are. Their reply rates are already high enough that they can afford to take= a hit." You might also want to think about when you reply. Dr Bruch a= dded: "People's behaviour at two o'clock in morning looks very differe= nt from their behaviour at 8 o'clock in the morning. Which is better depend= s upon what your goals are."

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