women using lojban

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a woman friend and i use certain lojban phrases many times a day.  
unfortunately, they all seem to have the same structure, so she knows almost 
nothing about lojban grammar.  
we use them because no one else understands them.  
we used to use klingon for the same reason, but the klingon survives only in 
my personal name for her.