There probably is a really easy way to do that kind of thing. The
lojbanists who know what they're doing pull linguistic tricks from out
the very air, and I feel like a six-year-old at his birthday party
trying to figure out how that rabbit got in that man's hat in the first
place. But it seems to me that Lojban doesn't really have a lot
of those titles, or honorifics, or anything. (The 'hauteur' cmavo
comes close, though.) I think such nomial add-ons would come
naturally through usage (and, also, adding straight rafsi to names
wouldn't be a bad way to do it, in my opinion). Or there's that
really easy way I just don't know about, either one.
To my own disappointment, so far I have found this is not the case. I
would be happy to find out I'm wrong, but it seems that in Lojban,
either you leave gender unspecified, or you make an introductory remark
about gender as in "I'm going to tell you a story about 'it,' and oh by
the way 'it' was male" and the subject never comes up again without
constant inconvenient awkardness. Instead of merely providing
gender-neutral options so that we don't default to sexist usages,
Lojban seems to make you work hard to provide the casual, ubiquitous
gender awareness we are used to.
-epkat