Well, yes, anaphora is one of those places where Lojban falls short, so an ideal loglang would handle it differently. But that doesn't seem to be directly relevant here, *{da'au} isn't being used anaphorically here
--, nor in the various versions of "we" ,which does not always include the notion, or indeed the second person either -- salience again. We are the salient group who is speaking through the utterance of one of us.
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